If you are blight then read this!

[Batz Kage]

But I would not treat someone differently because of the way they look... meaning, I wouldn't treat them like they didn't exist. I am friendly and interested in knowing more about someone else, as long as they're not jerks.

You wouldn't treat them differently, you just wouldn't "do" them???

[Andromeda18_]

but taht sounds so shallow it's sad...

Although later she says someone that she's "attracted to" with out saying looks or likes. See I feel you hae to take into account personality;
The way you two put it sounds like you're saying ugly people are ugly & have no saving points...

Want to know something? No matter how shallow it might be it's true to me as well. I mean, as far as falling in love with someone goes personality is far more important than looks but if we're talking about physical attraction than looks do matter. I wouldn't do an ugly person either. Then again, what is ugly? I have a friend who thinks Jewel is really beautiful, I think Jewel is really ugly. It's all a matter of perspective. You shouldn't feel bad just because some people say they wouldn't do someone ugly, that can be anybody and nobody.

[kakomu]

Want to know something? No matter how shallow it might be it's true to me as well. I mean, as far as falling in love with someone goes personality is far more important than looks but if we're talking about physical attraction than looks do matter. I wouldn't do an ugly person either. Then again, what is ugly? I have a friend who thinks Jewel is really beautiful, I think Jewel is really ugly. It's all a matter of perspective. You shouldn't feel bad just because some people say they wouldn't do someone ugly, that can be anybody and nobody.

glad to know you wouldn't do Jewel.

However, for me, when it comes to knowing someone, if I start becoming attracted to their personality, they start becoming more and more physically attractive. Vice versa if I really hate the person.

[Andromeda18_]

Then I quite lifting and got chubby, and I?ve got al these horrible centimeter wide stretch marks all over my chest, back, arms and legs; I never go anywhere with out a shirt on. :o

You can treat those you know? I'm not telling you to do plastic surgery or anything like that but there are creams that reduce their size and make them much less noticeable.
Also, losing weight will help.

[Andromeda18_]

glad to know you wouldn't do Jewel.

However, for me, when it comes to knowing someone, if I start becoming attracted to their personality, they start becoming more and more physically attractive. Vice versa if I really hate the person.

I believe that's true for most people.

[Batz Kage]

However, for me, when it comes to knowing someone, if I start becoming attracted to their personality, they start becoming more and more physically attractive. Vice versa if I really hate the person.

True words, that they are.

Anyways, the question I've been leading up to for those of you who don't "do" ugly people; now being a bit litteral & throwing out the above words, does this mean if your loved one was caught is a fire & badly burned it'd be the end of the sex life, or relationship even?

[Nina182B]

Whoa, that's horrible! If my boyfriend was burned to a crisp, I would still be with him. I would take care of him for life. Someone asked me a similar question before too: If something were to happen to my boyfriend's penis.. to the point of it never working.. I would still be with him. Same question for guys: If something happened to your girlfriend's vagina.. or mouth.. to the point of both of it not working, would you break up with her?

[rav96]

thats where ones "trusty oh so faithfull" hand would come in and i cant really answer that coz the hand be my only "bitch" mWhahahahaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!! nor am i a horny person in general

and with your bf if that were to happen there is always Viagra!!! or worst "comes" (couldnt hep myself) to worst there be strapons and noone said his tongue wont still be working

OMG i think ive been to oscene for one post

*goes and takes a cold shower*

[Batz Kage]

Whoa, that's horrible! If my boyfriend was burned to a crisp, I would still be with him. I would take care of him for life. Someone asked me a similar question before too: If something were to happen to my boyfriend's penis.. to the point of it never working.. I would still be with him. Same question for guys: If something happened to your girlfriend's vagina.. or mouth.. to the point of both of it not working, would you break up with her?

Hell no! The girl I stalk knows that's not what I'm after, & it's not. Sex, eh, I grew up quite feminet, sure I get horny, but eh; it's no requirement at all.

[onizuka17711]

Even if we hadn't been dating for a long time, I would feel kind of bad just ditching someone if something happened to them. I would sort of wait it out a while and see what happened. Since how hot you think they are sort of stems off personality quite a bit, than after a while, it might not even matter.

[Ryo of Inferno]

glad to know you wouldn't do Jewel.

Ok, Don't laugh but, who is Jewel?

[Batz Kage]

Ok, Don't laugh but, who is Jewel?

I assume they mean the folk or whatever singer..

[Blight]

You can treat those you know? I'm not telling you to do plastic surgery or anything like that but there are creams that reduce their size and make them much less noticeable.
Also, losing weight will help.

Yah, I've lost weight from running again, just kills my knees. The width of the marks has decreased but they are still bright pink. I guess I'll just wait it out.

[Vicious]

I've already stated that for me, I look at looks first. Anyone that says they don't is lying. There are some people who I might not find attractive at first, but the more I get to know them, the more attractive they become. The personality can make someone more attractive. But it can only do so much. I don't care how much personality someone like Rosie O'Donnell has, she's never gonna be attractive to me. But if they're average, the personality can make them much more attractive in my eyes. Conversely, a personality can also make a hot girl become more average. But I'd still bang them though just to see if I can make the bitch scream.

If I was truly in love with someone already and then something were to happen to them, I would remain with them. But if I just started going out with someone and hadn't developed feelings yet, then See Ya!

[Homeless Joe]

ok, as for being having low standards, let me say this, "true beauty is only a light switch away" lol, but i have a question for the fellow men out there, if you had a choice, either lose your twig and berries, or your life, which would you choose? now sit for a moment and think long and hard about what that means, remember all the good times you've shared and think about how different things are going to be. and be honest now. i guess the same question could be asked of girls,substitute trouser snake for pink taco of course, but i don't think the results would be the same.