butch? I wonder why...

[Atomic Orgasm]

Originally posted by Vicious
Me. Me. Me. I like that!!!!! Especailly the soft parts that are located . . . :o

lol.

[Homeless Joe]

Originally posted by Ka-Talliya
Butch women scare me. I like women pretty and feminne. I'm not saying I'm bi, but I've been kissed by a woman. Women are soft and smell good. I think a lot of people like that.

hmmm....come to think of it, i think almost every girl i know has kissed another girl. kinky. i wonder how many girls have compared to how many haven't.

[gohan32]

I never put too much thought into it. I always just felt that some people are attracted to "butch" women, and others aren't. There could be many reasons for it, and not all situations apply to the same rule. To me it's the same as: Why are some people attracted to trees, dolphins, or geese (now "butch" women seem less strange don't they).

On a completely different note: Has anyone ever triple kissed before? (keepin it PG-13) Those two girls...

[animeshop]

lol, you guys are a crazy bunch aren't you? - I guess thats what happens when you watch too much hentai

I'm an angel I never watch hentai

[gubi-gubi]

Originally posted by lucien
it would be that the reason some lesbian women are attracted to "butch" women is the same reason why some "straight" women are attracted to effeminate men. They just are.

Yeah I agree, I mean some of the scrawny guys girls go for like Orlando Bloom and stuff are hardly 'macho'...

As for a triple kiss, I've had a few... Some with two guys and some with two girls

[DARK OSAMU]

Originally posted by Vicious
Me. Me. Me. I like that!!!!! Especailly the soft parts that are located . . . :o

MMMmmm....softness. I like the softness of females too. Softness...I'll stop here now.

[Andromeda18_]

Originally posted by JunkieJoe
All girls are bi, thats one mystery of the universe I have solved already ^_~

no wonder when u watch porn with a girl how she likes the girl girl scenes more ;p

Well JJ, just because girls get aroused while watching lesbian porn doesn't mean they're bi. But yes, I'd say all women are bi only not in the way you wish we were. We can put women in 2 groups: those who are really bi and like having sex with other women and those who are bi in a platonic way. Let me give you an example: I could stare at Adriana Lima all day long, she's just sooo beautiful it takes my breath away. But am I sexually attracted to her? Do I want to have sex with her? No, not really (at least not at the moment but I'm only 21, who knows where the future will take me). In the same way I could stare at a Ferrari F360 all day long, or at the Taj-Mahal. It's all about beauty. I'm very sensitive to beauty and I love looking at beautiful things and that includes beautiful women (my boyfriend thinks I'm bi on account of that). Now, I could look at Tom Cruise all day long but I can tell you that if I could I'd definitely do a whole lot more than that! I like women but it's all very platonic and I thinks that's what happens with most women.

Women get aroused with lesbian porn because they're confortable about their sexuality. Women that were born in a time when people were supposed to be ashamed of sex will not like it for sure. But nowadays there's a lot of sexual freedom, women are not forced to feel ashamed and so they're not, they embrace it. And if we get aroused it's because we're watching 2 people having sex, that counts more than the fact that it's girl on girl.
Hetero men don't like watching gay porn because society puts a lot of pressure on them. Men have to be viril, manly men! Boys grow up listening to that, feeling the pressure of society and by the time they're men it's deeply rooted in their subconscient and that's why most men can't even consider watching gay men having sex and many gay men feel ashamed of being gay (at least at first). There's no such pressure on women.
Oh, and by the way I like watching gay men having sex. Most gay porn actors look like models with big, sexy muscles, they actually have a very manly look. But I suppose one just has to be open minded about the subject. One of my best friends is gay and through him I've known a lot of gay men so maybe that's why I'm confortable with the whole situation.

About lesbian girls liking butch women I don't get it myself! And it seems it's quite common. That gay friend I mentioned before has told me that he knows a lot of beautiful lesbian women who date women that look like truck drivers (I don't know what truck drivers look like in the US but here they look really bad). I guess beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, it's got to be!

I'd just like to add that what I wrote above reflects only my opinion.

[animeshop]

yeh Andromeda18_ I completely understand what you mean, thats why I guess Im a little confused whether im actually bi or not - since I haven't really done anything, and when I see a pretty woman, I admire her beauty and I don't think about jumping her but at the same time the idea doesn't completely turn me off.... oh well

anyone care to remove my confusion?

So in conclusion to my question, bi/lesbian women like butch women because..... they do!

Well that clears up a whole of a lot.

[Vicious]

Originally posted by animeshop

anyone care to remove my confusion?

Sure. Get another girl. All 3 of us will get together and remove more than just your confusion.

[animeshop]

hmmm good idea, but are you necessary in this equation? I know I like men, its girls I'm unsure of, lol

[Vicious]

Originally posted by animeshop
hmmm good idea, but are you necessary in this equation? I know I like men, its girls I'm unsure of, lol

Of course I'm necessary!!! Because ummm . . . because we need to see which one you prefer. Yeah. You need a man and a woman there to see if you like one more than the other. See. And you thought I was only in it for my own alterior motives, when all I was trying to do was help you out. Shame on you. Tsk tsk.

[animeshop]

oh my god! your right! How could I be so cynical, in thinking someone as sweet, and caring as you could think of only yourself, I am ever so sorry. I don't deserve you, I cannot imoralise you with my body - in that case I'll have to find someone else, someone not as worthy as you.

[Vicious]

You're probably right. You're not worthy. Go find someone else.

[animeshop]

anyone care to un-confuse me? either gender wanted

[Zagatto]

If you want to make a trip up to Ontario (or if you're on my route through the mid-west for the next two weeks) my wife and I would be happy to help you out. Or... if you want to wait a while and are in Michigan, I can hook you up with my mistress.

For the record, I was bi-curious once upon a time too. Went so far as to get together with one of my "fudge packing" (to borrow from another thread) friends and try fooling around. We never got very far because it always felt forced to me.

I still have the belief that everyone is bi-sexual. I don't believe it's a perfect 50/50 split though... most people have a definite preference of one or the other and social conditioning tends to force the label of straight or gay after that.

Given the right situation and mutual attraction with the right person, I believe either gender to be the right choice. That said, I tend to arrange the situation to involve a member(s) of the opposite gender so the prospect of being with a guy just hasn't come up for me.

I'll also come right out and say it; I'm a dog... woof woof...