11-26-2004, 03:45 AM
Sweet_Marie Wrote:Hehe,I know I am kinda late but I really like the nice guys..I have never dated anyone yet because like someone mentioned before most guys now a days are *beep*/*awefully blarg*..anyways I am waiting for a nice guy to come along and sweep me off my feet..Until then I am in no rush...and this sounds stupid but I fully believe that there is only but one out there for me and I am waiting for him.because people always remember their first love and I don't want any of my love to go to anyone else but him.. :o
And TRUE,I have read this whole thread includeing what you said..but I am not to good at giving out advice..but all I can say is learn to always love yourself and believe and look in your heart..and do not believe pretty words/you are the only/I don't like sex/you are the most beautiful/...guys say stuff to catch you.don't fall for it..Look for actions not just flattery..Well,that is the only thing I can say......That and I would be anyone's friend that needs/wants one...Marie ^_^
This is a disaster waiting to happen. When you 'think' you have found true love (because you don't have any comparing material) and give him your all there's a large possibility that you won't be able to let him go if he ends up not being all you expected, slowly making you miserable in the process. But you'll make it right in your own mind because he's your first 'true' love. Plus your expectations will be way to high if you keep looking for the perfect man and you'll put yourself in a vulnerable position for men who want to take advantage of you. There are many guys who can 'play' the perfect man for a while. Watch out for that.
I've seen it happen to some girls and its not a pretty sight when they finally realise there's no such thing as the perfect guy.