Bleeding Heart

[Andromeda18_]

I can't agree with you on any of that. I know most is just my personal crap, like I think Carmen Elet whatever isn't that great looking, & trust me I had a gal pal of mine cheer me on when I finally said I found a skinny chick to be sexually attractive

Also, I don't believe that a marrage should be effected by a sex life; common, sex is to procreate, yes it has other perfectly healthy uses but to be leaving someone cause they won't **** is like being an animal & giving into basic primal instincts

Personally I beleive wemon are special, you know why? They can have children, ya ever have one (yet?)? Yes, I know a man is required, but a man isn't capible of such a thing..

For starters I only mentioned Carmen Electra as an example, it could've been someone else just as easily. I don't think she's that beautiful a woman myself.

Now, when it comes to marriage sex is indeed very important. This isn't even a matter of my own personal opinion, it's a fact, otherwise there wouldn't be so many marriages being destroyed because of it. Of course there are exceptions, there's an exception for everything, but it's no lie that sex is important in the majority of marriages. And it's not even a case where a person leaves another because the sex sucks, a bad sex life slowly but steadily weakens a marriage. Add some other problems to that, even if minor, and the whole thing just crumbles. I understand that this is a bad thing, I understand why the thought doesn't please you but sex is as natural to human beings as is breathing and eating. We are first and foremost animals, and sex is an instinctive thing, controled by hormones. We can willingly control things only to a certain extent, which is why men get horny without choosing to.

And saying that women are special because they can have babies but men aren't because they can't is just foolish. No matter how great a thing it is to be able to carry a child, men are just as important in the equation because the womb is worthless if there's no man to fertilize the egg. I find it absurd when people undermine men's importance, as if a woman could have a baby without a man! If she could, that would indeed make her special but the truth is she can't! And even if we consider the fact that women are special because they can carry a child inside their bodies while men can't then we must also consider men special because they can fix DNA anomalies that women can't, which makes them much less prone to developing certain cancers and other diseases, because men are stronger, faster, etc. If women are special because their bodies can do things men's bodies can't then men are also special for the exact same reason. Just don't tell me they're more important than men when it comes to creating life because they are not. Men can't have babies without women and women can't have babies without men!