Bleeding Heart

[Andromeda18_]

You guys complain a lot about how girls are slutty, and while I agree with you I think it's in part your fault. Of course, lack of personality is to blame for the most part but men aren't innocent. Do you want to know why more and more girls are sluts nowadays? Because you drool when you see women like Carmen Electra naked on Playboy, because many of you idolize porn actresses. This is the exact same sort of thing that makes women diet in order to be thin, because they hate it when men look at thin women as if they were the most delicious things on the planet. Women want to be the center of that attention and they're not going to get it by being fat goody two shoes. Again, lack of personality and self-esteem is the main reason why this happens but your ambiguous behaviour doesn't help either. There's also something you must keep in mind, women can have a sex drive as high as yours, they can like sex as much as you do, so it seems only natural they behave like you do and we all know the majority of unmarried men sleep around as do 50% of the married ones.

I know I came back late in the convo but just let me put my two cents in. As for me I have a hard time around girls. Doesn't help that I'm a virgin either I guess. Of course that one girls still has a crush on me but I don't know. All I know is that I believe females should be treated like they are special. That doesn't mean to let them walk all over you of course but oh well. Then again perhaps me being a hopeless romantic is getting in the way. Ah well. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should treat a girl as if she is going to be your soulmat who shares yur life with you. Meaning not touching her until after marriage. Thats just my view on things I guess.

Girls/women are not special. We're no more special than men are and if there's one woman who is supposed to be special is the woman you love not all women. You're somewhat naive Ryo and that is the problem. Being shy, romantic and gentle isn't but being naive is. Do you really think sex after marriage is a good thing? Do you know how many marriages have ended because of a shitty sex life? Consider your own case. You're a virgin so you don't know how much you're going to like sex. What if you love it but end up married to a woman who is the exact opposite of you? You can be sure that is going to be a problem. If you have sex before the marriage that problem can be avoided.