Bleeding Heart

[Blight]

This topic sounds interesting so I am going to jump in. Blight, I know exactly where you are coming from with girls today. At my high school a lot of the girls are really slutty and are just looking to get laid for some popularity and those kind of girls are just going to screw you over in the long run. Now I'm not sure how old you are or anything, but I was wondering for the college people, if maybe girls start to mature and realize what a relationship should be when they get older (like in their 20's or so). This is what I was hoping because I can't find a decent girl in high school. They are all so fake because all they want is to be noticed.

Well, to be honest, I don't like to criticize girls who just want to f*** around. I used to do it all the time, and I don't like double standards. I have simply come to the point in my life where I want, no, need more from a relationship, than a healthy physical involvement. I'm in community college, and I can say, that there are girls there that are far more mature than anywhere else I have seen, but they are ones that I wonder how they made it into a school on the first place. I make my choices in what I like depending on whether they are smart, active, and posses the same passions as I do, and the last one is what kills me. I really need to have a girl understand the things I enjoy to do in life. Some are simple, like music, others are complicated inner thoughts and feelings you only discover after you have dated for a while. So, I guess the short answer to what you asked is, well, sometimes. Most importantly, don?t judge by appearances. A lot of people are fake on the outside, but once you get to know the person, they can be the white orchid cloaked in a shallow façade.