01-28-2007, 07:19 AM
You dont always have to be talking, not all silence is awkward. So if you run into awkward silence you're probably trying too hard. Just make sure to ask lots of open ended questions such as; movies seen recently, music, tv shows, respond to her answers to continue the conversation. Dont waste all your ideas in a one minute flurry of questions. Also dont bring up politics or religion unless she does, those are killers on a date. Try to think of topics that you really like to find out if she does too, Kurosawa movies and NIN make for great conversation.
I know everyone says it but they all say it because its the truth just be yourself, if you try to change your behaviour just to fit the moment or what she does she will pick up on that, also if you're really nervous she will pick up on that too so just breathe deeply and be yourself.
And lastly, comb your hair, remember fresh underwear, and be home by 10 young man!!
Good luck, Godspeed, and remember there are a lot of women out there.
I know everyone says it but they all say it because its the truth just be yourself, if you try to change your behaviour just to fit the moment or what she does she will pick up on that, also if you're really nervous she will pick up on that too so just breathe deeply and be yourself.
And lastly, comb your hair, remember fresh underwear, and be home by 10 young man!!
Good luck, Godspeed, and remember there are a lot of women out there.