07-25-2005, 04:31 AM
One thing that always confuses me is when a guy is attracted to a girl that dresses like a skank before they start dating. Then, after they've been dating a while, he doesn't want her dressing like a skank any more. It's like he doesn't want to be dating this girl that he started going out with.
On the flip side of that are women that will only dress like that to draw in a man and then start dressing conservatively once they are in a relationship. If I'm attracted to a skank then I want to be going out with a skank.
I realize that people grow over time and may change but to act one way just to attract someone for a relationship then change as soon as they are in a relationship seems dishonest to me.
As a parent to a young girl I hope to be able to teach my daughter respect for herself so that she doesn't feel that she needs to degrade herself in the hopes of attracting some guys attention. 12 year olds in micro skirts annoy me.
On the flip side of that are women that will only dress like that to draw in a man and then start dressing conservatively once they are in a relationship. If I'm attracted to a skank then I want to be going out with a skank.
I realize that people grow over time and may change but to act one way just to attract someone for a relationship then change as soon as they are in a relationship seems dishonest to me.
As a parent to a young girl I hope to be able to teach my daughter respect for herself so that she doesn't feel that she needs to degrade herself in the hopes of attracting some guys attention. 12 year olds in micro skirts annoy me.
Gullible isn't in the dictionary.