crappy days

[Andromeda18_]

Thought this would be a good thread to post this in. Seems after almost 3 years together my girlfriend decides we're too young or some stupid shit and she's not ready for a long term relationship. That was kind of a slap in the face considering I was going to ask her to marry me if she would move to europe with me if I joined the military.... I really thought I had found the person i'd spend the rest of my life with. =/

I had a lot more to say but now that i'm typing it up I really don't have any motivation anymore. Just thought i'd add the newist shit to the crappy days thread....

I must say I do think you're a bit young to get married. And yes, in my opinion, there's such a thing as being too young to marry. Just think about it. What if you had actually married her and then she decided she was too young, that she wanted to experience other things? It would have been worse. That's why I'm all in favour of waiting some years. However, this doesn't mean you couldn't have stayed together. She said she wasn't ready for a long term relationship? Well, I'd say 3 years is long term. Not the kind of long term 20 years is but I think it still qualifies as long term.
I'm really sorry this happened to you. Girls complain about guys all the time but we don't make it easy on you either, do we? Well, I guess you have too look at it from the bright side. If you're really thinking of coming to Europe you'll be able to enjoy what this continent has to offer to the fullest, and we do have some nice things to offer.