07-21-2005, 10:23 AM
Dude, sorry to hear about the hard times with your girlfriend.
I'm happy to say that things are looking more stable here in the house that Zagatto built (ok... I bought it... so what). Relationships can be hard courses to plot.
I can tell you that there is no such thing as "too young" or "too old" to get married. It's all about the two people and how much they love each other. Personally, I'm glad that I got to have my years of wild adventures before getting married. I feel like I know more about what different people have to offer in relationships. On the flip side of that I know people who have been married for over twenty years to their high school sweethearts.
The one thing I see in all long lasting relationships is a commitment to communicate with each other and listen to what each other is looking for.
Your girlfriend may be totally in love with you but just has too much curiosity about what other people are like. Sometimes a temporary break up can lead to a stronger relationship in the end. On the other hand a temporary thing can also end up being a permanent thing.
I hope that things work out well for you.
I'm happy to say that things are looking more stable here in the house that Zagatto built (ok... I bought it... so what). Relationships can be hard courses to plot.
I can tell you that there is no such thing as "too young" or "too old" to get married. It's all about the two people and how much they love each other. Personally, I'm glad that I got to have my years of wild adventures before getting married. I feel like I know more about what different people have to offer in relationships. On the flip side of that I know people who have been married for over twenty years to their high school sweethearts.
The one thing I see in all long lasting relationships is a commitment to communicate with each other and listen to what each other is looking for.
Your girlfriend may be totally in love with you but just has too much curiosity about what other people are like. Sometimes a temporary break up can lead to a stronger relationship in the end. On the other hand a temporary thing can also end up being a permanent thing.
I hope that things work out well for you.
Gullible isn't in the dictionary.