06-08-2005, 01:24 AM
I personally think you shouldn't make fun like that about fat people. Nu because i'm moralistic or something.. It's just too easy, I wouldn't be satisfied with it! 
I also think at the other hand confronting is okay, but it depends on what way. The trick I think is finding a way between letting them feel you're concerned, but also letting them now reality and that only they can stop it. A sort of motivating and confronting at the same time. Cause if you just say he/she can't do a thing about it you are giving them an excuse and that should never do that (even if they can't do a thing about).
But well.. That's also ain't easy!
I also think at the other hand confronting is okay, but it depends on what way. The trick I think is finding a way between letting them feel you're concerned, but also letting them now reality and that only they can stop it. A sort of motivating and confronting at the same time. Cause if you just say he/she can't do a thing about it you are giving them an excuse and that should never do that (even if they can't do a thing about).
But well.. That's also ain't easy!