12-22-2004, 08:25 PM
Blight Wrote:?The deeper a man's sadness is the dryer his tears will be.? This is from Heat Guy J and is totally true. When you experience emotional pain you push it down deep inside to keep from dealing with it. Only when your feelings come to the surface to you have to cope with the pain they bring.I'll agree with that. Most of the death that I've dealt with has been of older realatives. So while it wasn't exactly expected, it wasn't a shock either, and did not really bothered me. But then we're not the closest family. I had one friend die, and that came with a decent amount of shock and all that good stuff. Haven't really cried over any of them though. It's rare that I can get more than a single tear, usually it looks like I just yawned, if that. Everyone around me can be bawling, but not me. Straight emotionless face all the way. I ended up breaking up with a girl because I stopped caring about everything for a while after the friends death. But you couldn't tell by looking.