12-22-2004, 03:12 PM
onizuka17711 Wrote:If you are not gay, how can you possibly state how they feel or choose? That would be like me representing, say, bears. I am not a bear (obviously :p ), so how do I know how a bear feels? And did the bear choose to be a bear? No! It was just born that way. As gubi-gubi is gay, I sort of feel like he gets final say in this conversation. Since he is a "bear", he is the only one that can truly tell us how a "bear" thinks or feels.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I know how a gay person feels, I'm just saying that I believe a gay person feels about a person from the same sex the same way I feel about a person from the opposite sex. I feel that I'm heterosexual because I am, not because I chose to be and I think homosexuals feel the same way. That's what I was trying to say. Also, Gubi-gubi's right we both like men so I can understand him better than an heterosexual men can.