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[Blight]

You don't get to decide how you feel. Just like if someone were to kill your family, you wouldn't be able to help it that you were angry or sad. It just happens. I am sure that every gay person has at least once wished that they were straight so people would treat them normally, but does that make them straight? That's like saying "I want to be a engineer, so now I am".

Actually, it?s more like ?I want to be an Engineer, so I went to college and studied to be one and now I am.? It is true that your feelings determine the things you want but in the end it is your designs that propel you take be complacent or to take action. You always have a choice, and even if you decide to do nothing that was making a decision about what you are going to do. People often do things that they don?t like, but chose to them anyway, like work. They may feel gay but people can be pretty good at ignoring their feelings.