12-21-2004, 12:52 PM
takumi25 Wrote:The only problem that I can see with homosexuals is that they should not be allowed to adopt children. This is only my opinion so if someone is offended then Im sorry. The thing is...I think the decision to be homosexual should be around their teens so they can think for themselves. If children are being raised by homosexual parents then they will totally be confused of their sexuality because as most of us know, the first things that children learns are from their parents. So, if they found out that both of his parents are girls or guys then what??? Again...this is only my opinion and please dont take this against me
Well, I disagree with you. Actually it's not that I disagree I just see things differently. In my opinion sexuality isn't related to the way a person's brought up. I have a friend who's gay and he first found out he was gay when he was 8 years old. Another gay friend of mine found out he was gay when he was 17, he had girlfriends prior to that. Both my friends were brought up by a mother and a father, still they're gay, and both of them have brothers who were brought up in the same way and are not gay. Being brought up by heterosexual parents didn't matter at all. I believe the same thing happens if a child is brought up by parents of the same sex. In my opinion sexuality is ultimately an instinctive thing. Even if it wasn't why couldn't homosexual parents teach a child that there are people who like people of the same sex and people that like people of the opposite sex? A boy who lives with his mother and grandmother (let's suppose the father died), despite being brought up in a very feminine environment won't necessarily turn out gay. I think that a child who's brought up by homosexual parents will be more open minded and less prejudiced than a child who's brought up by heterosexual parents.