11-05-2004, 10:35 AM
Well everyone here has good points and mostly I agree with everyone that yes kids do
need to be spanked. Even I was raised this way, though the only ways i got spanked were
with bare hands or a belt. I also agree that there does need to be a balance as just hitting
and abusing kids is wrong. A child does not need to be spanked all the time however as I
believe there has to be degrees of punishment. A grounding or a time out may sometime
work although doing that all the time won't do it. Also you can't do it and not tell the kid
what they did wrong because otherwise they won't know. I also agree that sometimes
psychological stuff works and it does. I believe that in many ways I was like rav96 except
for getting straight A's. Its true I got A's but I got alt least one B in the mix. So A's and
B's were my usual in grade school. I guess what I'm trying to say is sometimes a slap on
the wrist is good enough, sometimes a spanking is needed. Sometimes maybe even a
medium like grounding. Just like there are strong willed and weak willed people there are
different ways to discipline. It all depends on the child and other factors as you can
sometimes do too much or too little to even none at all.
need to be spanked. Even I was raised this way, though the only ways i got spanked were
with bare hands or a belt. I also agree that there does need to be a balance as just hitting
and abusing kids is wrong. A child does not need to be spanked all the time however as I
believe there has to be degrees of punishment. A grounding or a time out may sometime
work although doing that all the time won't do it. Also you can't do it and not tell the kid
what they did wrong because otherwise they won't know. I also agree that sometimes
psychological stuff works and it does. I believe that in many ways I was like rav96 except
for getting straight A's. Its true I got A's but I got alt least one B in the mix. So A's and
B's were my usual in grade school. I guess what I'm trying to say is sometimes a slap on
the wrist is good enough, sometimes a spanking is needed. Sometimes maybe even a
medium like grounding. Just like there are strong willed and weak willed people there are
different ways to discipline. It all depends on the child and other factors as you can
sometimes do too much or too little to even none at all.
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