09-28-2004, 06:46 PM
Heh... one of my friends wanted to take his wife's last name when they got married but apparently you don't get that free like you do if a woman wants to take her husbands name. Kind of messed up.
Personally, as much as I still love my wife, I probably wouldn't have gotten married if it weren't for the fact that she lived in another country. I believe in just living together for as long as you want. The problem was that I REALLY wanted to live with my wife (still do) at the time and the only way we figured to accomplish that was to get married. We did do a trial run where I stayed here on a visitors visa for six months and that settled the matter... here we are... 8 years later and still happily married and with a beautiful little girl.
I didn't mean to imply that Morg and Akane were trying to have kids. It was more a suggestion that they both be careful. Neither of my children were planned and for the first one I did use a condom... enthusiasm goes a long way.
I hope the pair of you had enough opportunity to express your enthusiasm with out any unplanned surprises.
Personally, as much as I still love my wife, I probably wouldn't have gotten married if it weren't for the fact that she lived in another country. I believe in just living together for as long as you want. The problem was that I REALLY wanted to live with my wife (still do) at the time and the only way we figured to accomplish that was to get married. We did do a trial run where I stayed here on a visitors visa for six months and that settled the matter... here we are... 8 years later and still happily married and with a beautiful little girl.
I didn't mean to imply that Morg and Akane were trying to have kids. It was more a suggestion that they both be careful. Neither of my children were planned and for the first one I did use a condom... enthusiasm goes a long way.
I hope the pair of you had enough opportunity to express your enthusiasm with out any unplanned surprises.
Gullible isn't in the dictionary.