My Girlfriend

[Andromeda18_]

Ah yes this scenario... I have fallen into this female trap once before. Realize how this trap is first set. A) The female sets the trap for the good male (Type Me) but forgets about the trap when Bad Boy male shows up. B) After many failed relationship attempts with Bad Boys 1 thru 20 she remembered her trap for the good male and decides to spring it on him. Now this has a 50/50 chance of success. Either A) he falls for it and saying to him self I finally have her...yea. Or B) He noticed the trap earlier in his life and said oh hell's no... after you have had 2 kids now you want me... or after you went thru 2 guys who beat on you now you want me, or after you wasted your college years quit chasing some motorcycle guy and are working at McDonalds, see me all successful in my career go "He liked me in HS but he was a geek then, I think I will grab him now." OH HELL'S NO...

And that is how I look at that.

If I was in that situation I'd go with choice B) as well. I still think being a man and a good friend is the perfect combination. Then again I don't usually go for the "dangerous", dumb guys that so many girls seem to like. For me a man has to be intellectually stimulating and most of those guys aren't.