08-21-2004, 04:12 AM
evilomar Wrote:Most of my comments are sarcasm, well yeah most of them. However, my ex-wife and I had an open marriage as well, a little different then what you have. It worked for a couple of years, and then there were some issues. Well I think you can guess why I am no longer married. I don't view women as fuckmachines, well maybe when I was 20 years old I did, but I do respect women dude. Now I am in a happy, normal(by my standards) relationship. However, you still earned my respect, because you have a successful open marriage, I remember how hard it was between my ex and I sometimes. I don't think I need to be scolded in a forum, of all places, for the things I say, I'm a 26 year old man and I can say whatever I please. Normally I wouldn't take the time to explain the myself, however I felt the need to this time because we are both adults and I have never had a problem with you.
omar, I did try to qualify my statement by stating that I may have missed your sarcasm. Remember
the wink makes everything ok. I didn't want it to turn into a public scolding but I felt that a number of your recent posts seemed to value women mostly for their sexual abilities. Unfortunately, I missed that sarcasm (no to clue me in) and I found your statements to be shallow and immature.I am curious to hear about your open marriage and what part that had in your divorce. I understand if you don't want to talk about it but I think it would help if I knew other pitfalls to watch for in my own relationship. Over half of the open marriages I've known have burned out and ended with divorce (although not always on bad terms). I love my wife very much and I continue to make sure to do what I can to keep our relationship strong.
So I'm sorry that I scolded you publicly. I didn't mean any offense by it, I was responding to your other posts recently in other threads. Thanks for the respect too.
Gullible isn't in the dictionary.