08-17-2004, 12:17 PM
I enjoy talking about this as well so, as far as I'm concerned you can keep talking about it.
I agree with what you said. It seems to me you and your wife have a healthy relatioship. The one thing I don't forgive is betrayal but the agreement you have with your wife is ideal to keep betrayal away. Like Vicious, I don't think I'd want my boyfriend/husband with other women but that's because I don't think I'd be able to stand the jealousy. Not to mention that would be a blow to my ego, something like: "Am I not good enough?" (and believe me, I aim to be the best). I know it's not that linear, but I wouldn't be able to help feeling that way.
By the way, 20 and 22 year old girls look the same so I think that for now you're well served.
I agree with what you said. It seems to me you and your wife have a healthy relatioship. The one thing I don't forgive is betrayal but the agreement you have with your wife is ideal to keep betrayal away. Like Vicious, I don't think I'd want my boyfriend/husband with other women but that's because I don't think I'd be able to stand the jealousy. Not to mention that would be a blow to my ego, something like: "Am I not good enough?" (and believe me, I aim to be the best). I know it's not that linear, but I wouldn't be able to help feeling that way.
By the way, 20 and 22 year old girls look the same so I think that for now you're well served.
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