08-10-2004, 08:24 AM
Just in case someone does get offended by what I wrote, please don't take it the wrong way. People of a specific country/race/gender can not be 100% alike, which is why I wrote "MAYBE some saudi arabian or indian guys" and those were just examples of two countries that came to me at the moment. I don't have a personal grudge against these people.
Vicious, it's a good thing you've got parents who won't force that kinda stuff on you. I feel so bad for my friend. I don't get it either - She doesn't want to do it and I keep telling her that she doesn't have to but she she keeps saying she can't disobey her parents. I have this sickening feeling that she will eventually marry whoever her parents pick and that, just like your friends, she will just complain to me and be miserable. Her parents tell her that she has a "choice" - If she absolutely hates him, then she doesn't have to marry him but if she thinks he's okay, then the marriage's set! I doubt she will even wanna try to convince her parents she hates the guy. Her parents were arranged marriaged too and they have problems. Ugghhh.. I hate how some people think they don't have a choice in anything when they do.
Vicious, it's a good thing you've got parents who won't force that kinda stuff on you. I feel so bad for my friend. I don't get it either - She doesn't want to do it and I keep telling her that she doesn't have to but she she keeps saying she can't disobey her parents. I have this sickening feeling that she will eventually marry whoever her parents pick and that, just like your friends, she will just complain to me and be miserable. Her parents tell her that she has a "choice" - If she absolutely hates him, then she doesn't have to marry him but if she thinks he's okay, then the marriage's set! I doubt she will even wanna try to convince her parents she hates the guy. Her parents were arranged marriaged too and they have problems. Ugghhh.. I hate how some people think they don't have a choice in anything when they do.