08-10-2004, 08:10 AM
Well, I think it still is stereotyping. It just happens that the stereotype appears to be mostly correct in this circumstance.
As for the arranged wedding thing - my parents know better than to even ask me. No way in hell would that ever happen to me.
I know some girls that got arranged weddings and are so unhappy. I don't understand their problem. I told them from the beginning, don't say 'I Do' or whatever it is that we're supposed to say. No one can force them to say that. But they do and then they come back and tell me a year later that they should have listened to me.
As for the arranged wedding thing - my parents know better than to even ask me. No way in hell would that ever happen to me.
I know some girls that got arranged weddings and are so unhappy. I don't understand their problem. I told them from the beginning, don't say 'I Do' or whatever it is that we're supposed to say. No one can force them to say that. But they do and then they come back and tell me a year later that they should have listened to me.