07-21-2004, 02:42 PM
I have to defend my fellow men by saying that those three little words all wemon seem to enjoy hearing will choke most men to death, just please don't hold it against us, as you will likely find out that given some time they will open up.
I should know, I'm quite different, & most people I let know about my life turn tail & run, heck I've even chanced off one friend I'd had since Kindergarden when I told him about my secrets. Conclusion: As they've all said before the fear of rejection will keep you from making many fatal jumps in your life, but will likely keep you from making even more better ones.
And as one can assume picking yourself back up from rejection can be kinda hard, & will probably lead to a lack of trust & willingness of commitment.
But as all things, time will heal.
Anyways, as for -spike-:
I can totally agree with ya man. On two parts: A) I've been girlfriendless all my life.
And: B) I find myself to be to selfish to feel that I could adiquitly (sp?) love someone, but I guess life happens. Also, if you think love is a thing you can plan out I'll feel sorry for you
I know there are some people out there who have realtionships that don't just hit it off from the start (such as my situation), but you can't exactly control your emotions, or atleast not to a point, trust me I did a full report on the mental demons which control your soul when empowering yourself to control emotions others fear.
You know that's all either good advice, or I'm just plain weird. Whichthen again the above written doesn't make much sense to me anyways, not that anything else does either. Anyone wanna paraphrase me?
And while I'm rammbling, whatever happened to all the threads in the rant section that didn't belong there? They went on for quite a while, & now there's jsut no more topics like them.
I should know, I'm quite different, & most people I let know about my life turn tail & run, heck I've even chanced off one friend I'd had since Kindergarden when I told him about my secrets. Conclusion: As they've all said before the fear of rejection will keep you from making many fatal jumps in your life, but will likely keep you from making even more better ones.
And as one can assume picking yourself back up from rejection can be kinda hard, & will probably lead to a lack of trust & willingness of commitment.
But as all things, time will heal.
Anyways, as for -spike-:
I can totally agree with ya man. On two parts: A) I've been girlfriendless all my life.
And: B) I find myself to be to selfish to feel that I could adiquitly (sp?) love someone, but I guess life happens. Also, if you think love is a thing you can plan out I'll feel sorry for you
I know there are some people out there who have realtionships that don't just hit it off from the start (such as my situation), but you can't exactly control your emotions, or atleast not to a point, trust me I did a full report on the mental demons which control your soul when empowering yourself to control emotions others fear.You know that's all either good advice, or I'm just plain weird. Whichthen again the above written doesn't make much sense to me anyways, not that anything else does either. Anyone wanna paraphrase me?
And while I'm rammbling, whatever happened to all the threads in the rant section that didn't belong there? They went on for quite a while, & now there's jsut no more topics like them.
My Soul Brings Tears to Satanic Eyes.
If Max Collins, Matt Skiba, Jimmy Urine, & Mark Phillips had a child it would be one fu*ked up mofo, but 'it' would be the God of music.
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If Max Collins, Matt Skiba, Jimmy Urine, & Mark Phillips had a child it would be one fu*ked up mofo, but 'it' would be the God of music.
As-1D R077's temp homepage: http://www.freewebs.com/as1dr077/index.html