09-29-2003, 08:52 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Ngckld
i just cant just be mean to her i am not that kind of person( and she says she still loves me but i dont know why)
can't be mean to her?? she is the one that is being mean. do you really think she loves you? i don't go around making the ppl I love sad. the fact is, if she really loves you then she would still be your girl. some times you have to be mean. she is just using you for what ever reason she may have, but it's not love, I can tell you that for sure. I have been down this road myself. More times than I care to count. You really sound like you need some time to get over her. You're never going to do that if she is still keeping you as a back up. Sorry to say this but it seems like that's all you are to her, a back up boyfriend/friend. Move on with your life, and tell her to move on with hers. :o
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