A question of offensiveness

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Alright, I tried to put this out of my head, but every time I think about it, it pisses me off. So, I guess I should just talk this out. Okay, here goes.

Ok, gay people (and anyone with an opinion, but more specifically gay guys) is it offensive for me to think gay (um, male) sex is gross? I don?t think so. I don?t have a problem with gay people, I don?t have a problem with gay people having sex. But the visual picture does gross me out.

Where this stems from is someone at work was talking about how hot this dude kissing scene was and I cringed. (Yes, two dudes only kissing is not something that I like to imagine either). One of the girls got in my face about it, so I told her my feelings. The girl went on to rant about how all kisses were beautiful and I should be more accepting. I said what the fuck ever, cause I never had a problem with it happening, I just didn?t like how It looked. She called me a homophobe for it. I was instantly pissed. Super pissed. I mean, wtf. Am I not allowed to let certain acts of PDA or certain sex acts repel me? Since she opened the gate, I sent hell through.

I started with two ugly people kissing, and how the sight was gross. She said I was comparing ugly people and gay people and I was a homophobe. I ignored her and moved to if someone were to just walk up and perform oral sex on someone in front of her if she would like it. She said that something like wouldn?t happen so it was a bad argument. The bitch was pissing me off. Finally I just asked why I wasn?t allowed to be grossed out by dudes kissing or anything else, and she said it was because I was only grossed out by gay kissing. There I had her, and countered solidly with two shots. A) was I totally love girls kissing, and B) was that I sure as hell don?t like scat (which I had to explain to her was people craping on each other..eww), so does that mean I don?t like the butt hole? She told me I was gross and I told her something I won?t say because it was fucking mean?and gross.

My point to this is: I want to know if she was just being a bitch, or if some people think she had a legitimate argument. I think, that as a person who has respect for the personal freedoms of myself and others, that other people can do things that would make me throw up, and I am allowed to throw up because of them. Let me hear some answers.