08-16-2005, 11:51 PM
H'm, I am in a similar situation. Although I am not in a business relationship with my
father like you are so I don't know if jeapordizing that relationship matters to you. My
father is a very much like yours. Self-centered, uncaring, one track mind, etc. I took his
BS throughout my childhood, or at least what part of it he was there for, lately though I
have unleashed all my pent up feelings on him every chance I get, I lay it all on the line
and let me tell you I feel much better now. Now the next move is his, whether or not he
will admit his mistakes or even try to make amends. Honestly, go for it. The more you
take the crap the worse it will get for you emotionally and physically, emotional stress
puts a lot of strain on the heart and nervous system.
father like you are so I don't know if jeapordizing that relationship matters to you. My
father is a very much like yours. Self-centered, uncaring, one track mind, etc. I took his
BS throughout my childhood, or at least what part of it he was there for, lately though I
have unleashed all my pent up feelings on him every chance I get, I lay it all on the line
and let me tell you I feel much better now. Now the next move is his, whether or not he
will admit his mistakes or even try to make amends. Honestly, go for it. The more you
take the crap the worse it will get for you emotionally and physically, emotional stress
puts a lot of strain on the heart and nervous system.