04-21-2005, 02:59 AM
Hey man, congrats.
I don't know why you were told that your Hammerdancing wouldn't get you anywhere. It's a fact that a number of women judge a guy on how well he moves on the dance floor. If your moves are smooth on the floor and you have the nerve to get up there and do it just because you enjoy dancing then the chances are good there will be women who appreciate it.
Now you're in for the fun part of the whole relationship thing. Spend some time getting to know this girl. Find out what she likes to eat, watch and do. Don't find out by asking her friends. Find out by talking with her.
Try some of the things that she likes that you've never tried before (unless those things include opium and crack... in which case you should run away). Who knows, maybe she digs anime.
The more things the two of you share together then the stronger your relationship will end up being.
My final tip is to not smother the girl. Try to keep your calls to each other about 1:1. Don't call her three times a day telling her that you just saw kittens and they made you think of her. Some girls might like a call like that once or twice but if you call her more often than she's calling you then you're overdoing it and are likely to scare her off. I'm talking from experience here.
I don't know why you were told that your Hammerdancing wouldn't get you anywhere. It's a fact that a number of women judge a guy on how well he moves on the dance floor. If your moves are smooth on the floor and you have the nerve to get up there and do it just because you enjoy dancing then the chances are good there will be women who appreciate it.
Now you're in for the fun part of the whole relationship thing. Spend some time getting to know this girl. Find out what she likes to eat, watch and do. Don't find out by asking her friends. Find out by talking with her.
Try some of the things that she likes that you've never tried before (unless those things include opium and crack... in which case you should run away). Who knows, maybe she digs anime.
The more things the two of you share together then the stronger your relationship will end up being.
My final tip is to not smother the girl. Try to keep your calls to each other about 1:1. Don't call her three times a day telling her that you just saw kittens and they made you think of her. Some girls might like a call like that once or twice but if you call her more often than she's calling you then you're overdoing it and are likely to scare her off. I'm talking from experience here.
Gullible isn't in the dictionary.