04-01-2005, 04:26 PM
dikpierce Wrote:When a woman is made to feel like it is all her fault that the abuse is happening to her, like in many cases, why would she leave him?
That's just it? Why would any woman think that it's her fault she's being abused? That's what doesn't make any sense to me because a man has absolutely no reason to abuse a woman no matter what she does. It's not her fault!
vegeta76 Wrote:you also have to take into account the fact that even if the woman does have the man arrested, most restraining orders arent worth the paper they are printed on... you always hear the stories on the news about the women who go and get a restraining order against their ex-husbands/boyfriends only to have him show up at her door and put her in the hospital or even kill her....
Fear really is a big problem. But you know, a woman can kill a man just as easily, killing someone is a very simple thing to do, yet men aren't really afraid of women are they? I understand the position many women are in but I also think that being corageous would change things around as has been proved.
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