Who are you?!?!

[dikpierce]

there are too many cases where it isn't hard to prove the spousal abuse because of burns, broken bones or just plain old bruises where the wife still won't press charges for any number of lame reasons they can come up with.

I have a friend who works in a womans shelter and every few months I talk to her and she's in tears because some woman went back to her abusive husband and ended up beaten to death.

So many thoughts come to mind with that that it pains me to put anything down here. What can make a woman go back to a relationship like that? What can make a man treat any other person like that?
and the list goes on and on...

When a woman is made to feel like it is all her fault that the abuse is happening to her, like in many cases, why would she leave him? If she would ever realize that it is not her fault that he abuses her then I think it would be reported and she would leave him.
Just my opinion.
I almost forgot----24, male