Heh...even though I'm a girl, I kind of think like Vicious. No way am I going to move away from the other party. I just ignore his existence while he tries to annoy me. He doesn't like it, he moves. I don't go around telling stories behind my exs' backs. I say whatever I have to say in the person's face, not behind. I'll just share sth and I guess some of you will think what a bitch I am.:p
I had an ex, who actually was a total ass. Hehe.......thought that females existed only to serve him. He borrowed tons of money from me, (I lent him only in front of witnesses or I made him sign an IOU everytime :p ), I dumped him after he yelled," You don't behave like a female at all. You don't listen to me. You don't behave in the way I want you to behave!" He gave me a push which almost flipped me over. All these happened when he lost in the game of Monopoly to me and he had to declare bankruptcy. He had wanted me to give him credit and let him owe me. Hell no man! Where did that rule come from? He just didn't like losing in anything, school, work, game, especially to me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH
stupid eh?
I gave him a time frame to return me the money. He was good for the first 2 installments but the last installment of $2k, he was late late late. Out of pity, I gave him another 3 mths. Still he did not return the $ and changed his cell #. Just too bad for him that all his close guy friends liked me enough to give me his new cell #, house # and new address. I just asked once, if they didn't want to give it to me, I didn't really care. Doesn't it show how much they like him? Hahahahahahahahah
Found the jerk and he said he had no $. BUT his friends had told me that he had just bought a $5k watch, brought girls to expensive restaurants and out partying every night. I told him, " Say whatever you want. I KNOW YOU. One more mth, that's it." Jerk threatened me, threatened to harm my parents etc. Following the bitch instinct, I had tape-recorded down the whole conversation. I went straight to file a police report on the threats. Well, that frightened him enuff to return me the money within 2 weeks.
After that, he was the one who went around bitching about me. I didn't bother explaining anything at all coz, say whatever he wants, I didn't do whatever he said, I don't care. Ppl who know me, his friends, my friends, they know who's the bad guy. Strangely enuff, even those ppl who aren't close to me or him tend to side with me. The last time I saw him, he gave me the finger and called me bitch or sth. I just smiled and totally enjoyed the pissed look on his face.
His friends came to me and said, "That's our girl! We didn't even invite him to come to the party and he party crashed himself!"
So rav, don't let what others do bother you. Just be yourself. You learn from those experiences. Heh...you'll reach the state of Nirvana once you've experienced enuff. :p
I had an ex, who actually was a total ass. Hehe.......thought that females existed only to serve him. He borrowed tons of money from me, (I lent him only in front of witnesses or I made him sign an IOU everytime :p ), I dumped him after he yelled," You don't behave like a female at all. You don't listen to me. You don't behave in the way I want you to behave!" He gave me a push which almost flipped me over. All these happened when he lost in the game of Monopoly to me and he had to declare bankruptcy. He had wanted me to give him credit and let him owe me. Hell no man! Where did that rule come from? He just didn't like losing in anything, school, work, game, especially to me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH
stupid eh?I gave him a time frame to return me the money. He was good for the first 2 installments but the last installment of $2k, he was late late late. Out of pity, I gave him another 3 mths. Still he did not return the $ and changed his cell #. Just too bad for him that all his close guy friends liked me enough to give me his new cell #, house # and new address. I just asked once, if they didn't want to give it to me, I didn't really care. Doesn't it show how much they like him? Hahahahahahahahah
Found the jerk and he said he had no $. BUT his friends had told me that he had just bought a $5k watch, brought girls to expensive restaurants and out partying every night. I told him, " Say whatever you want. I KNOW YOU. One more mth, that's it." Jerk threatened me, threatened to harm my parents etc. Following the bitch instinct, I had tape-recorded down the whole conversation. I went straight to file a police report on the threats. Well, that frightened him enuff to return me the money within 2 weeks.
After that, he was the one who went around bitching about me. I didn't bother explaining anything at all coz, say whatever he wants, I didn't do whatever he said, I don't care. Ppl who know me, his friends, my friends, they know who's the bad guy. Strangely enuff, even those ppl who aren't close to me or him tend to side with me. The last time I saw him, he gave me the finger and called me bitch or sth. I just smiled and totally enjoyed the pissed look on his face.
His friends came to me and said, "That's our girl! We didn't even invite him to come to the party and he party crashed himself!"So rav, don't let what others do bother you. Just be yourself. You learn from those experiences. Heh...you'll reach the state of Nirvana once you've experienced enuff.
:p